Don’t Date The Nice Guy!! =]

Posted: April 28, 2012 in Relationships

Relationships are just not for me! I had problems picking the wrong guys, I always wanted that bad-boy, so I changed my direction. I started dating a guy whom I have been friends with for a while, the “good-guy” type that I always gave no time of day for in the past. Turns out they hurt you even worse than the bad-boys!

I changed my location, address, everything for this guy. Things were so great in the beginning but then some unexpected news turned the relationship into sour. The guy is currently going through a divorce and has a 3-year  son (whom I got along with great) from that marriage. He had received news that he was going to have to take a paternity test to see if he was the father of a 6-year old girl from a previous relationship. He was one of many men tested for paternity of this little girl. He took the test, we didn’t hear anything back for over a month. Then, the paternity test papers came in the mail declaring a 99.99995 chance that he was the father. Okay so that is a shocker, but we can work around that. He became distant from that day forward, and our once great relationship turned into ignoring one another for the most part.

He recently kicked me out of his house knowing I didn’t really have a secure place to go. I thank my family for having me back. He swore to me he would never hurt me… he lied. So in conclusion, the good guy is not always the good guy… ladies beware!!